Sunday, June 7, 2015

Greedy Vs Prideful

So I am on a social network for us different folks. People post all sorts of things on the forums. I usually stay pretty quiet but this one lady really rubbed me the wrong way. She claims to be a single mother, living in a hotel, and working at Denny's. She posted asking for help for a night or two at the hotel and food and stuff for the baby. Okay. All fine and good there. She got many replies offering her rides and such. Something about her just didn't sit well with me. Then a few days later she posted that she was still needing help. Basically asking for cash. I commented. I am a single mom and I have been down on my luck several times. I have always utilized any help that was offered to me. I have even refused some help (mostly because of my stubborn pride). She has excuse after excuse after excuse so that she can wind up with cash in her hand. I know several people that offered to help her and she didn't take either of them up on their kindness. She even claimed that one asked for sex in return for his help. I very highly doubt that and he also denies it. Then she proceeds to call me an asshole because I called her out. lol. It was quite entertaining. My boyfriend came to my rescue and defended me. I was very appreciative of that. And so far, since everyone thinks she is a scammer now, she's been very quiet. One thing is that she is a member of a group called BBW escorts. Okay really? And you want people to take you seriously when you are asking for help? Hell no. Go turn some tricks to get your money. Crap like this reminds me of Christmas time and how much I despise that holiday season for the exact same reason. People trying to take advantage of others kindness. Women with 7 kids and 5 baby daddy and asking for help to give their kids a good "Christmas". As if the presents and gifts are what Christmas is. Let me tell you, as long as you have family and friends and a roof and food, you have Christmas. Christmas is not about presents and material possessions. Ugh so anyway. I just thought I would vent about her and how much I can't stand people like her. I work my ass off to provide for my daughter and to make sure that she has everything that she needs for life and more. If I absolutely had to, I would work at McDonald's. People that have an excuse for everything will always have an excuse. They will never strive or succeed at anything. And that's okay for them if that's what they want. That is not okay for me. I will not settle and I will always strive to succeed and be better for my daughter.

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